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Every 17 Year Old Girl Has Secrets.

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Anonymous asked: as a fellow teenage giel what do you think a 5'4 girl should weight and don't say any of the everyone is beautiful bs please give a number i am trying to determine my goal weight and i want imput

Well, I actually am a firm believer in the whole “everyone is beautiful” thing, unless your weight is a health hazard. That being said… there’s no “right” answer to your question! I weigh a healthy 105-110 (I don’t own a scale, I’m not sure how much exactly) and I’m 5’2.” I’d say a 5’4” girl might weigh somewhere around or above 115, give or take. It depends on your body type. But if you want honest advice, I’d say it’s definitely not about how much you weigh, but how healthy you are and how healthy you feel. I’ve never owned a scale, and I’ve had my bunch of weight-related insecurities, but I’ve ALWAYS felt my best when eating healthily and exercising on a semi-regular basis. So in my opinion, I’d focus less on your goal weight and more on how healthy you feel. Sorry if that’s not the answer you’re looking for, but believe me… it’s definitely something worth considering!

Baffled and Blonde~

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Anonymous asked: is it bad to talk to a guy who you haven't met (Skype doesn't count) but one of your friends knows him and goes to school with him? he messaged me on twitter and he goes to the same school my dad went to and he's really nice and cute I just don't want my friends to judge me

It’s not necessarily “bad,” you just have to take the same precautions you would if you were meeting anyone else for the first time! If you have on record (like from your friend who knows him) that he’s a good guy, then go for it! It’s not like you picked him up off the street! But still, you don’t really know him so of course you still have to be a bit cautious. Don’t worry about what your friends think, though… I mean, my boyfriend and I barely talked the night we met, but we exchanged numbers and started talking afterwards. There’s no harm in meeting new people :)

Baffled and Blonde~

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Anonymous asked: Hey! So I'm seeing this guy who I do like and I thought it would help me get over this other guy who I REALLY like and have done since the very first time we spoke! My gut tells me to go with the guy I've always liked however although we get on and I *think* he may like me, he's never actually asked me out, so I don't know what to do? :(

Just b/c he’s never asked you out doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you! Try getting to know him better - it’s okay for you to make the first move. Maybe he’s shy, maybe he doesn’t know how to approach you, the possibilities are endless! Try hanging out with him or talking to him more…if you really like him, go for it!

Baffled and Blonde~

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Anonymous asked: My bf and I have been going out for over a year and I just found out that he still has feelings for his ex. They dated about 2/3years ago. I really want to be with him but idk if it is the right thing to do. She helped him when one of his parents died and I think maybe thats the reason that he still has those feelings cause that was a big part of his life. He didnt tell me but I found out and when I confronted him he told me he doesnt love her and he doesnt like her like her, he just likes her.

I believe it’s impossible to completely 100% “get over” someone you once had strong feelings for (unless they totally ruined your life or something). That being said, just b/c he has strong feelings for her doesn’t mean he’s in love with her or anything. I’m sure there are guy friends you love but don’t love like a boyfriend. Unless he starts to shy away from you and towards her, there’s no reason to worry - both of you have different roles in his life, and as long as you and him trust each other and are honest about your feelings for each other, you’ll be fine :)

Baffled and Blonde~

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Anonymous asked: Hi :) so this guy has been showing some signs of liking me...I think and because of that I've started liking him, it started by him tapping my shoulder and he did this twice but he kept walking after he did this, and then he said hi to me but like in the weird I like u kinda way and I just feel like he try's to get my attention but I hope it's not in my mind, b4 this we were never really friends but we knew each other cuz its a small school, how can I know if he likes me? What do u think?

Try hanging out with him more, or talking to him more - it should give you a better idea of how he acts around you vs. how he acts around other people. Go from there :)

Baffled and Blonde~

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sheerio-styles asked: How do i tell my Boy Bestfriend i like him?

Just tell him! If he likes you back, then you’re set! If he doesn’t, your friendship will survive if you’re true friends :)

Baffled and Blonde~

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Anonymous asked: please answer your asks quick, i really need you

I’m so sorry I haven’t been on tumblr in so long! I’m still swamped - hopefully after this wednesday everything will calm down and I’ll have more time to answer everything. I wish I could spend hours giving advice, but unfortunately I have to prioritize homework -__- I’ll do my best! If it’s really super important and urgent, you can ask me again or email it to baffledandblonde@gmail.com.

Baffled and Blonde~

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Update

I’m really really really (x infinity) sorry that I’ve been so flaky in responding lately……. I’ve been running from state to state, trying to figure out my future (in terms of college). I have absolutely zero time right now, but I’m going to try and sort out all your questions in the next week or so. I love how many questions I get, and I love giving advice…. but sometimes I can’t find the time to give thought-out answers.

Again, I’m very sorry! I’ll get to your questions as soon as I can!

(Busy,) Baffled and Blonde~

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He Makes Me Smile - A Text Conversation

Him: So I kinda have feelings for this girl and I was wondering if you could help me out…. so she’s this girl who lives in [my town] and she’s blonde and short. But the okay kind of short. Like it goes with my height so it works. But she’s absolutely beautiful. Like no one you’ve ever seen before. She has an adorable laugh and a really pretty smile. She’s into theatre but I don’t know too much about that. We have like so much in common and she makes me really nervous whenever I’m around her like idk I just feel like she’s way too good for me. I’ve been trying to figure out what I should do…. like I wanna ask her out on a date but idk how!! I also don’t know what to do on this date…. can you help me….?

Me: I think you should stick with cats… girls have cooties.

Him: Lol you think so? Alright maybe I’ll give it a little time.. have her warm up to me ya know? …But on the other hand, I’m kinda in love with you…. like I know that’s crazy but I really want to be with you and I’ll never treat you wrong. You’ll be treated with nothing but respect. So we’re gonna go on a date tomorrow okay?

Me: I guess that’s okay…..;)

Me: I love you :)))

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It’s Funny How Things Work Out Sometimes

Ready for a curveball?????????? Ok…. here goes…..

EXHOOKUPBOY.

A lot of you are probably really confused right now… for those of you who haven’t kept up with my blog since its inception, I’ll attempt to explain who exactly I’m talking about.

Exhookupboy. How to explain him. Hmm. Well. He’s quite attractive; think, Derek Zoolander meets actual, real, male model (in a good way!) - he’s on the short side, but muscular and tan, with short dark hair and a mischievous smile. He’s a class clown - a total goofball who everyone hates until they get to know him. Really crude sense of humor (think: teenage boy), but really down-to-earth one-on-one or in small groups. We used to hook up. It lasted about a month. All the drama that caused was actually one of the reasons I started this blog in the first place - I needed to vent (I didn’t think it’d become an advice blog back then). I hadn’t talked to him since last November (as in, November 2011)….. until like last week.

He does tech for our drama club - I have no clue why, he’s an amazing actor. Seriously talented! That’s kind of how we started, last year in drama club, when we were working on a show together (he was in that one, though). Anyway, after I ended things (it got really messy, for those of you who don’t know) we didn’t talk. Ever. We never acknowledged each other. We trashed each other anonymously, but I’d moved on to bigger and better things (like shyboy… *sigh* shyboy.. ;) ) and he became bitter and resentful. We ignored each other for sport. Until this year……….. during the spring musical, we started talking again! It was weird… just small acknowledgements at first in group conversations, but then as time went on we became *shall I dare?????* ….friends…? I’m not sure if I can even call it that. Now that the show’s over, I have no clue if we’re ever going to talk again.

But I know one thing.

I forgot how hot he is.

Also, he’s a really good kisser.

;)

Forever hiding my inner slut,

Baffled and Blonde~

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